What is emotion coaching?
What is emotion coaching?
Emotion coaching is a relational technique that draws from attachment theory, highlighting the importance of secure emotional bonds between parents and children for healthy development. It aligns with the idea that a child's emotional experiences and how those emotions are handled by caregivers significantly impact their long-term well-being.
What are the benefits of emotion coaching?
What are the benefits of emotion coaching?
Emotion coaching involves validating and guiding emotions, helping children and young people to understand and manage their feelings. Its main benefits include building emotional intelligence, developing social skills, nurturing a stronger parent-child connection, and facilitating positive behaviour regulation through lifelong coping tools.
Mina's 4 step approach
Mina's 4 step approach
Curiosity
We all have felt overlooked at one point in our lives. In childhood it would be the feeling of being left out. In adulthood it presents itself as feeling ignored. The aim of this approach is to have a sense of what it is like when a genuine interest is taken in what we care about. To experience feeling seen.
Rapport
The activities and questions used to build rapport are personalised. A space is created where it is comfortable to share memories about past experiences. To reflect on feelings that were felt and what is felt now. The aim of this second technique is to build trust. To experience feeling heard.
Insight
Through reflecting on actions and feelings, the narratives that are developed, are discovered. Some are helpful and will support us in achieving our goals. However, others can make us feel stuck and no longer serve us. Those are the narratives we seek to identify, to then try to understand their underlying beliefs.
Growth
We take the insight and reframe the beliefs that no longer serve us. This is done by rewriting them into more purposeful and positive narratives that we rehearse and repeat. Finally, we learn new cognitive coping skills that solidify the new beliefs and if need be, adjust them in the future.